This is a question that EVERY gay person has either asked or has been asked. Some people say it is best to come out as soon as you know. I disagree. You shouldn’t feel as though you must shout it from the rooftop. I believe that in order to come out to others… Continue reading When Should I Come Out?
Last week, I was given a new assignment at work. With this new assignment came a “new” cubicle. As I was unpacking the contents of my box in my “new” cubicle I hear a soft voice say, “You can’t sit there.” I continued to unpack my box and I hear that voice again this… Continue reading You Cant Sit There
Ok… While I was brushing my teeth this morning something occurred to me. Why do men think it is acceptable to say “what a waste” when as soon as they find out an attractive woman is a Lesbian? What a moronic statement and it is said with absolutely no regard for the individual. Seriously. Don’t… Continue reading Why?
I learned that one of the hardest things to do is trying to accept yourself for who you are. It took me a long time to get to that accepting stage. There was a time when I would tell myself I would meet the right man. I tried to rationalize my attraction to women. I… Continue reading Coming Out to MYSELF
Finally… I understand, it took a while but I truly understand. Here I am a fairly intelligent woman and I was trying to figure out what is going on with me. Was this a total lack of self-awareness? I mean really, how did I not figure this out before now? This is something that I guess I have always known… Continue reading My Truth…